A common fear among people with disabilities is they are afraid they won’t fall in love.  This often results in poor relationships choices, including putting up with abuse or other things that should not be tolerated in a relationship.  So the question is… how do you help someone with a disability who is afraid they won’t fall in love.  The answer to this question is quite complicated.  Often as someone with a disability I get the answer “Well God always loves you” which to me it seems like people are using God as a cop out again to me.  I feel like God does love us, but God also wants us to need other people – thats why God created two seperate genders.

I do not have a good answer on what to say that would help a person in this circumstance, even though I have been in this circumstance before, so I will open it up for discussion.  What do you think you could say to help someone in these circumstances?